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The Psychical Role Of Spirituality

Saturday, September 27th, 2008
Frederick Gimino asked:


What is spirituality? Very simply put spirituality is the core of our belief systems. These belief systems are often based on deities, supernatural forces, or universal energies. The purpose of which is to provide a deeper meaning for our physical existence. Furthermore, the need to define our existence beyond the five senses is deeply rooted in the fundamental development and differentiation of our id into the ego and super-ego.

So, why is spirituality so deeply rooted in our human development? To answer this question we need to first look deeper into the psychic connections we form as infants. These psychical connections, as you will see, form the core of our spiritual “self”. They in fact truly determine our ability to differentiate between good and bad.

Now let us take a look at why the need to understand or define our existence starts in our infancy. As our id develops and the ego evolves from it we are able to differentiate between “self” and “other” by forming the “repressed”. The “repressed” is formed during the Primary Repression phase of our development and is cut off from the ego via repression.

However, the repressed may still be accessed via the id. During this period of development we also form our ability to differentiate between good and bad. Furthermore, this ability to differentiate between good and bad forms the core of our spiritual nature by creating the means of forming the super ego.

Secondary repression brings about the formation of the super-ego. This is primarily caused by the anxiety produced, in direct response, to certain desires. This anxiety acts as a negative stimulus or punishment and causes the desire to become repressed. Once the threat of negative stimulus has been internalized it forms the super-ego.

This evolution from the somatic instinctual id into the “evolved” id/ego/super-ego complex is the ongoing developmental process that leads to the formation of our adult spiritual belief system. In addition this spiritual belief system allows relief of ongoing stress and anxiety without forming complex neurotic coping mechanisms of continued repression.

So, it should be apparent that spirituality not only gives a deeper meaning to our existence but also provides an important outlet for stress and anxiety. Stress and anxiety unchecked or repressed wreaks disastrous consequences, in our lives. Leading to unhealthy neurosis with devastating repercussions.

Consequently, without spirituality we would truly be a society of neurotic individuals with a plethora of maladaptive personality traits. These personality traits can manifest them selves in many forms. From anti-social behavior to alcoholism the list of potential pathologies are beyond the scope of this article.

So, embracing spirituality is not only morally right but also a healthy practice. Whether you choose to worship a deity or talk to a tree for spiritual guidance the ability to transcend this world by unplugging your inner self and connecting it to an external “force” is an integral part of good mental health. It allows us to release the stress and anxiety that we cannot handle or process. Thus discharging it in a healthy manner rather than repressing or “stuffing it” to fester and malinger.

In summation spirituality is not only the core of our belief systems. Even though spirituality does form the core component of our religious and cultural beliefs. It also is an essential component of our psyche. Even more importantly spirituality forms the core of our psychical ability to cope with stress and anxiety, in a socially acceptable manner.



Alma

Why Do People Use Fortunetellers and Psychics?

Monday, September 15th, 2008
Gita Saraydarian asked:


1. Why do people tend to go to fortunetellers?

People seek fortunetellers for many reasons. They want a quick fix to a problem they are having. They are hurting. They are vulnerable. They tend to be naïve and easily duped. They may be emotionally or psychologically incapable to see the root issues or deal with them. Or, they may be mentally lazy or depressed. They may simply be searching and a fortuneteller or psychic is an easy way to find answers. People don’t want to solve a problem at the root cause since this requires serious self-confrontation and takes time. People sometimes have a need to search for “other worldly” reasons for problems, something outside of their control or their understanding. They may feel that if the problem is other worldly, or so big or “out there” it removes personal responsibility as well as gives them more status for having such “superior” problems. There is the element of the mysterious or the unknown that is given more credit than one’s own logic and reasoning and ability to understand. This indicates a serious lack of self worth. On a more sinister aspect, people go to fortunetellers to find ways to gain advantage over others, to succeed over others, to coerce others and to control others. There are many reasons.

2. What are the main questions that they tend to ask?

People want to know about their future: health, sex, marriage, money, jobs, and what happened to a dead relative, as well as a way out of some guilt or painful experience. Questions may seem mundane and silly, but at their core there may be some serious issues to be dealt with.

3. What do you think of the people who use this information as a source of facts?

They are either being deceived or deceiving themselves. The fortunetellers are not telling facts at all. They are either guessing or are full of lies and deceptions. On one end of the spectrum, the fortuneteller may really feel they are seeing and feeling things but have no clue what these things are. On the other end, there is deliberate deception. On some level, the person seeking fortunetellers and psychics is really looking for some answers whether or not they admit it. The answers are then taken seriously or considered, whether they are valid or not. We basically give our power away to someone else and take his or her statements as facts and run our life accordingly. Some fortunetellers are “honest” enough to admit this; some truly believe they have the “gift.” Any person with true spiritual and psychic abilities will keep the mouth shut and not tell fortunes or do psychic readings. People are desperate so they go to fortunetellers. I don’t blame them for seeking help. The fortune telling/psychic industry has grown big at the expense of others. But, these practices are as old as the hills and they will continue to exist as long as there is someone to be taken advantage of.

Instead of deceiving people, a spiritually gifted person encourages others to seek help inside themselves, or sends them to a qualified therapist, a doctor, a marriage or business counselor. A true psychic leads a searching person to books and spiritual practices that will help gain self-knowledge and self-confidence. The real psychic is a healer and a guide to help the person to become independent and not be stuck and co-dependent on others. A true psychic will not tell the person the answers but leads a person on a path of self-discovery.

The Lord Buddha said not to believe anything because He said so, but to verify it with our own intelligence and experiences.

4. Is it worth putting so much faith on fortunetellers?

Not at all, unless you want to be deceived and give your money away and be taken advantage of. Great religions and spiritual disciplines always discourage people from believing these kinds of people and for good reason. You can go to a million fortunetellers and they will all tell you the same thing. I call this “psychic mumbo jumbo.” If you need help, go to a professional and qualified person who is trained to deal with the real problem. Or, if you can, learn to deal with the problem from a physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual sense and see the real causes. Read great religious books and great literature. Learn to pray and meditate. Build your ability to reason and think. These provide real guidance. Instead of covering up the problem, try to solve it or come to a deeper understanding of your life and issues. If we continuously rely on others to tell our future, we do not build our inner sensitivity that will guide us on the right path. If we trust ourselves and listen to our inner voice and stop running to others for everything, we will know what the answers are.

5. Can they really make our lives better?

No, since most people have a tendency to believe them and get sidetracked. They complicate our lives and increase the thickness of our inner walls of self-deception. Human beings are very complicated. Sometimes people ask about some simple matter, but at the base of it, there are many other complex issues that need to be considered.

Fortunetellers/psychics see only one small layer of a person’s vibrations that is called the etheric or emotional levels, just like what animals can sense about a person. If he or she is capable of greater knowledge, they are not telling fortunes or doing readings; they know the need to keep their mouth shut and not involve themselves in the karma of others. A fortuneteller/psychic is by definition a person with limited intelligence and self-discipline, is unable to control images and visions coming from subtle levels of life, and is unable to know what the images really mean.

Even if we seek such things as mere entertainment, we need to ask ourselves, do we believe any part of it? Are we hoping deep inside of us that some of what the person said can come true? In some subtle way, we are putting power in someone else. At a very vulnerable time in a person’s life, fortunetellers can wield tremendous power and influence. We complicate matters further when we know we are deceiving ourselves and begin to lose faith in ourselves.

It is far better to seek help from qualified professionals and do the hard work.

Psychism is a serious issue and should not be toyed with and mixed up with common parlor tricks known as fortunetelling and reading people’s lives.

Thanks for the questions. Your comments are appreciated.

Gita

You can read more on this topic in Other Worlds and Psyche and Psychism and Challenge for Discipleship, and Breakthrough to Higher Psychism all by Torkom Saraydarian.



Carlos

Psychics -SharingThe Light

Saturday, February 23rd, 2008
Frederick Gimino asked:


Psychics and spiritualists help us see into a mystical realm not readily apparent to us. Peering into the mysterious spiritual dimensions beyond our own allows psychics to retrieve information that often helps us understand the physical plane we exist in.

Often times the information gleaned from the mediums communion with the spirits helps less fortunate individuals come to terms with issues causing difficulties in his or her life.

Unfortunately coping with the gift of heightened psychic awareness is a troublesome even disconcerting task at times. This is mainly because psychics and psychic abilities exist outside the mores and folkways of society. Mediums are often viewed as charlatans or tricksters out to make an easy dollar off of an innocent unwitting victim.

Even psychics with the best intentions may find them selves being ostracized by main stream society. Because of this some mediums choose to abandon their gifts for an easier more socially acceptable lifestyle.

Trying to fit in is never a good idea and being psychic is no exception. Mediums that try to hide their spiritual gifts do so at the risk of losing their true meaning and purpose in life. This denial can lead to inner strife, turmoil, and unhappiness.

Sharing your inner light is the only true way for gifted individuals to attain peace and happiness. Helping others is the deeper calling that psychics must obey. Charging a fee for a service that is invaluable to some is no crime and should not be frowned upon. As humans we all must eat and have shelter. Psychics are in no way immune to the needs that every other human being has.

Trying to survive in this world is hard enough without having to worry about being persecuted by others for being different. Although, persecution of the unknown and misunderstood seems to be the norm throughout history it does not make it right. Trying to understand and empathize with an open mind is the only way to really be free of social stigma.

Harboring resentments and bitterness towards individuals who do not know any better only occupies time and energy better spent on more productive endeavors. I beseech all of my brothers and sisters in the light to reach beyond this world and its societal constraints and see into the realms of true spiritual prosperity and happiness as we make our way into the eternal light to come.

As we are all travelers in this plane of existence for a fleeting blink of an eye try to spend good measure on things that truly matter. Focus on helping humanity especially lost souls. Lest we forget our true purpose on this planet to walk into the great beyond and be freed of our heavy debt that has burdened us for so long.

I call to all those seeking truth, light, and eternal peace to teach the world one person at a time to receive the gifts of the universe.

I hope all that understand take time to share the cosmic knowledge we have been blessed with. Despite the negative energy we may feel from non-believers please remember it is our spiritual obligation to try and teach the true meaning of life and the golden rule to all.



Roy

Search for a Psychic

Sunday, February 10th, 2008
Diane Jacobi asked:


This can be fun or it can be drudgery. We want to make it fun. So let’s get our friends together and talk about our psychic experiences and maybe one of them will know of someone who is accurate and if the psychic is accurate with my friend, she will definitely be accurae with me.

Wrong! This is one of the biggest myths in looking for a psychic. When I was writing this article, people even said to me, “Why write about finding a good psychic….just ask a friend?”

When I was 19, before I had come in touch with my own abilities, a friend of mine had been faithfully seeing this one psychic on a regular bases. She even made some phone calls to her in-between and believed in her very much. She felt everything she told her had come true. So for a birthday present, she sent me to this psychic for a reading.

The day of the reading, I was very nervous. I believed what this psychic would tell me was going to come true. It’s funny, that is what we all want, yet we are so fearful knowing someone has that kind of power in our lives.

I also want to let you know that the higher powers have a way of leading you down a road for guidance and love, though you may not understand it at the time.

I was about to embark on an experience in my life that would be so detrimental, it would be forever emedded in my mind. This one event would enable me to help others, simply, by remembering just this one experience. For just a year after this experience, I came in touch with my own psychic ability.

The psychic I saw worked out of a metaphysical center. This is another myth that if the psychic is connected with a center or church, you will receive a good reading.

Wrong! So here I am sitting in the waiting room of this center, shaking so bad from nerves that I had to get up and literally walk up and down the corridor. Finally, after what seemed to be an eternity, she came out of the closed doors and called my name.

We entered an all white office except for a huge Indian painting on the one side of the wall. She said nothing to me, while getting out her cassette player and tape for the reading. She sat behind this big wide desk and I sat facing her on one of the hard chairs in front of her desk. She was an average looking tall woman in her late 50’s. She hardly looked at me through the whole reading. She just kept staring at this Indian picture in back of me.

She got my full birth name and date of birth and started talking. The reading was very abstract, not at all detailed or specific. She kept asking me through out the reading for questions. I wanted to know about my grandfather, who was in the hospital, and how he was going to be?

She told me he was going to die in 6 months, that I needed to prepare myself for his death, spend time with him and let him know I loved him.

I felt like I had just been hit with the biggest Mack truck the higher spirits could hit me with! I went home that night and cried all night long.

My grandfather lived 10 years after that reading. He was released from the hospital the day I had that reading. The universal force wanted me to go within, receive my own answers and use my best judgement for going to a psychic.

Another way of obtaining a psychic reading is through the internet. We all know there are tons and tons of websites on psychics. How do you begin to sift through them all and chose one that is right for you?

Does the website appeal to you? Does the psychic explain how they obtain there informatin? Become aaware of words such as caring and sensitive. You may laugh at this, but when someone is seeing your future, don’t you want them to be caring and sensitive?

Does the psychic have there phone number on the website? Call the number and ask questions:

How long are the readings? I believe that when I am receiving information from Spirit during a reading there is no time limit or done thur the email any number of pages is unknown until Spirit stops giving the information. In other words, a email reading from me can be 3 pages or 20 pages. I leave it up to Spirit.

How much do they charge?

Go with what you can afford.

What length of time does the reading cover for 3 months, 6 months, a year?

I have found for my readings the length of time it covers vary from person to person and what area of the reading I am receiving information for. Example may be, meeting soulmate x amount of months and then new job in 4 weekks, that is what can vary. However, an over all reading my spirit guides have pretty much stated 6 to 8 months for things to develop.

What method do they use to obtain the information?

This is a key question because it will tell you there belief system, being sincere and caring, will explain in detail the method and how it works for them to connect to the higher power.

If your looking for a online reading all this should be answered on the website and if it is not then please take the time to call them and ask. Any good psychic will have no problem taking the time to answer your questions. After all, aren’t you worth it?



Juan